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Originally Posted by bookworm84
I had a similar experience at the college I go to and it is tearing me up inside.After the first day,my rho gamma called me to say that no chapter invited me back.It REALLY hurt me.I was depressed for days and I still am in some ways.I don't why some sororities pick some girls and some don't and I'm starting to think there are some inconsistencies in the whole formal recruitment process.It's ironic the one thing girls want to get into so badly,they can't get into.I still want to get into a sorority somehow but it still hurts all the same not really knowing why none of the chapters I visited called me back.I hope you find what you're looking for.Good luck with whatever you choose to do!!
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Some ideas:
Is your GPA low?
Are you not involved with anything on campus?
Was your appearance not polished?
Are you a non-freshman?
Are you a transfer?
Are you shy/were your conversational skills poor? Did your conversations not reveal much about yourself?
Do you have any enemies in any chapters?
Did you not have recs (if you are at a school where recs are important)?
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