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Originally Posted by ree-Xi
Just do it. If people stop being your friend because you are looking to branch out, then they aren't really good friends, are they?
That being said, since you are asking for advice, I would suggest that you stop thinking or referring to women in sororities as "the enemy". Simply because you don't share a lot of similar interests does not make someone an enemy. If you truly are interested in meeting different types of people, you need to open your mind up and throw all judgments out the window. You may actually learn that you do share common interests or beliefs.
If you want people to accept who YOU are, you need to accept who they are. If you can do that, then I think you should go for it. Just remember that people may need some time to get to know you, and that might take a bit longer since you don't usually associate with Greek members. I would be open with them as to what in Greek life actually interests you.
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Thanks. I really appreciate it.
I know I shouldn't judge, etc., but I think it's just human nature and something everyone does, unfortunately. It's just kind of weird/hard to think that all of a sudden I want to do what the people I've always tried to disassociate myself from do. And I know that they aren't friends if they don't support me, etc., but that's also hard, too, just socially.
So much to think about.
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