lil sis rush

pirateladybug9 · #1 02-05-2009, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Exactly. To be blunt, it seems to be the equivalent of spitting on food so no one else will eat it. "OMG HE'S MY BIG BROTHER GET OFF HIM YOU SLUT!"

Actually its nothing like that at all. My big is really close to alot of members of my chapter and has other littles as well. Also, he's had a few girlfriends throughout the course of our "relationship".

Personally, I don't understand why its such a huge deal to all of you. I don't think you should sit there and knock big bro-lil sis relationships until you have one yourself. Its not about having someone call you a little and be degrading or anything like that.

KSUViolet06 · #2 02-05-2009, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by pirateladybug9

Personally, I don't understand why its such a huge deal to all of you. I don't think you should sit there and knock big bro-lil sis relationships until you have one yourself. Its not about having someone call you a little and be degrading or anything like that.

Holy thread from 4 months ago batman.

If you're in an NPC sorority, you should ask your HQ that question hun. I'm 99% that NONE of the NPC HQs approve of it either, so it's not just us here.

33girl · #3 02-06-2009, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by pirateladybug9

Actually its nothing like that at all. My big is really close to alot of members of my chapter and has other littles as well. Also, he's had a few girlfriends throughout the course of our "relationship".

I guess I just don't understand what the point is putting a label on a good friendship. It seems really juvenile. Isn't it enough to just say that "Josh and I are really good friends"?

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Originally Posted by pirateladybug9

Typically, the bigs get the littles a hoodie with the LITTLE's letters on it (you can't wear another chapters letters unless you go through certain ceremonies as detailed in bylaws or ritual) and underneath it will have the big's chapter SPELLED OUT lil' bro/sis.

I doubt that any groups (male or female) have official ritual for this kind of thing, therefore you're really treading into dangerous territory.