the alum might have sent it directly to the chapter, so panhellenic would have no way to know.
do you have the alum's address? if you have not yet sent her a thank you, you could do that now, which might prompt her to send the rec, if she has not yet done so. i agree with you, calling the alum again might come across as rude, although that is not your intent at all.
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