What happened?

[uk2011]

Originally Posted by Tippiechick

Hundreds of girls going through recruitment. Minutes to get an impression of someone. Decisions being out of your hands sometimes. You seriously think rush is some fabulous process where people become best friends overnight?

I have told girls I really liked them and would like to see them again. It was the truth. The truth was also that it might happen and it might not based on membership selection on both sides.

I would pay money to see you when you get on the other side of rush. When you pull so hard for a girl you really think would make a great sister, only to have said girl think the whole process seems fake because she didn't get voted through.

We're not arguing for the sake of arguing, sweetie. We're arguing because in the world of sororities, we actually know more than you.

Wow. THAT was uncalled for.

Listen, I think the girls I talked to were fake. I talked to dozens of other girls I loved in many different sororities, and even more that I loved in their same sororities. I am sorry you think that is so wrong, and that I am a "melodramatic bitch" for feeling that way. But I guess the great thing about life is that you can make that opinion about me, without actually knowing me. Just like I can make an opinion about the few girls who came across to me as being fake.


Also: please understand that I am NOT angry! I am angry at this conversation, not at my Recruitment experience. I had fun. Sure, I had disappointments, but I've also made great friends and found a group of girls I absolutely adore.