When "the one" doesn't think YOU are "the one"

[SoCalGirl]

Originally Posted by SoCalGirl

I was constantly trying to explain to him how women's brains work and logic is not absolutely always the best way to come up with an answer.

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I'm not sure what you mean here.

To my friend, his wife wasn't asking "am I your one an only". He took it as a statisical question and answered the way he did. He understood the question but not the intent of the question. Which is why a logical answer was all kinds of wrong. Does that make more sense? He could never quite seem to get that he had to think about the question behind the question before answering. "Veiled questions" are something most guys don't do but for women it's second nature that we don't even find it odd. I think it's so common for women that we don't question if it's a positive or negative trait. I think it's part of the way that we just communicate differently than men. We don't intend to ask loaded questions. They just come out that way.

But anyways, I'm not trying to derail this thread.