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07-17-2007, 10:26 PM
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Location: Trying to stay away form that APOrgy! :eek:
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This some bull, I finna go lesbian....all the way.
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07-17-2007, 10:48 PM
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Marquise, this is a good question. I will just say that my husband and I (who IS a Nupe) have been friends for many years. When we were done with our "single" ways and ready to be serious we did the damn thing and got married. I have always known that he was my sole mate but I was not always willing to accept the idea. I had to grow as a woman and he as a man for us to make a serious commitment. You have to take your time and be sure because marriage is serious. We both realized that and that was that. On another note, we have a lot of friends that are married and that is pretty much who we surround ourselves with because those are the people whom we have things in common.
We have fun together and apart. We know our roles and we respect each other's individuality because it is important to remember who you are.
Aside from popular belief, marriage can be fun. It is work but it is also well worth it when you have someone who you KNOW for a fact has your back. I love being married...plus my hubby is "fine as hell" so you know that can't hurt either. 
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07-18-2007, 02:12 AM
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Location: On the beach. Well....not really but near it. :0)
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Originally Posted by Dionysus
This some bull, I finna go lesbian....all the way.
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LOL!
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07-18-2007, 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Dionysus
This some bull, I finna go lesbian....all the way.
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the same power struggle exist in ALL relationships regardless of orientation...
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07-23-2007, 12:11 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2002
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Originally Posted by neosoul
the same power struggle exist in ALL relationships regardless of orientation...
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Hahaha...I was joking. I like read somewhere that domestic violence happens the most in les relationships, followed by gay, and then straight relationships. Something about women not being socialized as much as men, not to hit their partners.
This thread is still going on. 
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07-18-2007, 10:40 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Atlanta, GA
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Originally Posted by Dionysus
This some bull, I finna go lesbian....all the way.
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You lint licker!!!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WEJJUGJZxpU
Anyhow, I think a lot of people are single because they want relationships to be a walk in the park when in fact they are not. They don't want any struggle, hardships, or trials and tribulations, which I feel makes relationships stronger. People don't want to get their feelings hurt, and they probably feel better off just being single. Therefore, when something goes wrong, they are not obligated to stay. Every time I start to get to know someone, something just ain't right. There are things I can accommodate to, but I will never settle and stray away from my standards. Frankly, I'm tired of dating. However, I must go on and find my soulmate. As soon as you think you have the perfect man, you find out the a$$hole is a crackhead. WTF am I supposed to do? Watch him snort his life away? Oh sh!t, I think I just took this to a personal level. 
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