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11-18-2006, 10:10 AM
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one more thing....
His birthday is on the 22nd and I already purchased his gift. Should I give it to him or just return it?
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11-18-2006, 11:13 AM
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BellaSF, I know you didn't ask for advice but girl, run...no wait do a Flo Jo and dash away from this situation! There is NO WAY I'd even remotely date someone in this situation - much less who would get upset with me for pressing charges due to damage to my car! Oh heck no.... Until he gets his past straightened out, there can be no future. Good luck with that....
Ok, to answer your question I can't think of anything too crazy olutside of having to deal with a lying ex boyfriend or something like that. I've never been physically harmed or had any of my property damaged either (please believe if I had, this post would be coming from the county jail). lol
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11-18-2006, 11:41 AM
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His birthday is on the 22nd and I already purchased his gift. Should I give it to him or just return it?
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OK.... Did you not just tell a story about how he invited you to his house TWICE knowing that he had a woman (oh yes... PLEASE BELIEVE that they are still together or something is going on), that he did not defend you like a man should, AND got mad when you pressed charges against her? And then you double back and ask if you should give him a gift??? Are you serious?
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11-18-2006, 12:27 PM
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OK.... Did you not just tell a story about how he invited you to his house TWICE knowing that he had a woman (oh yes... PLEASE BELIEVE that they are still together or something is going on), that he did not defend you like a man should, AND got mad when you pressed charges against her? And then you double back and ask if you should give him a gift??? Are you serious?
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CO-SIGN!!!!!! That dude will probably be the one to bail that chick out...why would he be upset that you pressed charges if he wasn't still involved with her....from your post you don't seem like the type use to or willing to dealing with confrontation and if you continue to deal with this guy the drama will be there......let that mess be....life's too short for the BS!!!
ETA--you shoulda been looking for a bat in the house to take to her head while that trick was outside wrecking shop on your car!!!!!
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11-18-2006, 12:48 PM
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It sounds to me as if they had a fight and he decided to make her jealous using you. Been there, done that, cut your losses and move on.
p.s. Why did you buy him a gift in the first place at this point in the "relationship?"
p.p.s. The behavior you described is not exclusive to "ghetto" women. Jealousy knows no socioeconomic class.
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11-18-2006, 02:08 PM
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p.p.s. The behavior you described is not exclusive to "ghetto" women. Jealousy knows no socioeconomic class.
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co sign... as to the worst experience I've had dating... never had one since I don't much
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11-18-2006, 04:19 PM
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Thank you...
Thank you everybody for all the advice...especially Afrochic.
And I didn't mean "ghetto" as socioecomic class. There are wealthy people who act ghetto. I meant ghetto as how she carried herself.
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Last edited by BellaSF; 11-18-2006 at 04:24 PM.
Reason: wanted to add more.
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11-18-2006, 01:21 PM
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His birthday is on the 22nd and I already purchased his gift. Should I give it to him or just return it?
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OMG. Usually every once in a while I will just read the post and without logging in, but girl you made me log in. When you asked that question, the first thing I thought about was Waiting to Exhale. Remember when Lela Rochon was dating that bum who was wearing a leather vest in the summer time? And remember when he stole her wallet and she asked Savannah, "Do you really think he stole by wallet?" Savannah just said bye girl and hung up the phone.
Um Bella...hang up the phone. Why are you buying gifts for him? This time it was your car, next time it may be you. That girl is not his ex, that's his crazy girlfriend. He leaves much to be desired if he would date a girl as you say so ignorant and ghetto anyway. It took 15 minutes for the police to show, you never know how many times they have been called to that house in the past for domestic disputes, just a thought.
Life is too short for drama. Return the gift...save that money for a Christmas gift for someone who really cares about you and has your best interest at heart.
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11-18-2006, 02:06 PM
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Life is too short for drama. Return the gift...save that money for a Christmas gift for someone who really cares about you and has your best interest at heart.
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Someone like YOURSELF!
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11-18-2006, 04:26 PM
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For clarity, I meant that BellaSF should spend her money on HER.
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11-18-2006, 04:45 PM
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For clarity, I meant that BellaSF should spend her money on HER. 
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I sure will! And Black Friday is next week!
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11-18-2006, 08:54 PM
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Reminds me of some of the things I've done back in the day...you are better than that. Push on and love yourself. For real...take this advice.
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11-18-2006, 10:48 PM
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I say move on as well. I won't go and say that they may be still together b/c she could just be holding on to him after he broke it off. You never know. I knew this one crazy chick who wouldn't let her ex bf go...it was RIDICULOUS!!!!!! They would mess each other's car's up at night...and he had the nerve to give her a key to his place before they broke up! You best believe she went over there one day and opened his door to find him studying with another chick. She went straight loco! And the sad part is that when she told me she said they were just studying...so why she went crazy is beyond me. Especially since they were broken up. Even started a fight with this girl he was dancing with at a party at ANOTHER SCHOOL because she was jealous  Needless to say I don't talk to her anymore and there are too many stories I could tell. Be careful b/c once someone shows you how they really are you should believe it. She crazy.
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