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Originally Posted by delph998
On a serious note, my father tells me all of the time that I have too many male friends and that may prohibit me from being in a relationship. I've cut a lot of these friends down over time.
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Only for insecure men unless you are spending way too much time with other men.
I was raised mostly around males and almost all of my life most of my friends have been male. I also have friends who are women, because I don't believe that women are catty or difficult to get along with, but just not as many female friends as I have male friends. I make sure that these male friendships are platonic (even if there WAS some attraction at sometime) and we don't blur the lines in our words and interactions. So there's never a question.
If you cut down on these male friends make that be a choice YOU make because YOU no longer need them in your life. Unless you and your man are going to be picking each other's friends and he's not going to have any female friends.