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10-24-2006, 06:55 PM
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You hit it right on the nose. I wouldn't get serious with a babe who had male friends. It just causes too many problems.
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Well you will be missing out on a lot of good women then.
But maybe women won't want to be with you because you call them "babe."  
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10-25-2006, 11:58 AM
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I came across this quote and it made me think of this thread:
Definition of "Just Friends": It means I don't just want you to mourn the loss; I want to remind you of it every day. I want you to suffer. I want you to envy. I want you to die slowly, a bit at a time. And I want you to smile and thank me for it.
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10-25-2006, 01:05 PM
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Well you will be missing out on a lot of good women then.
But maybe women won't want to be with you because you call them "babe." |
I love it! 
On a serious note, my father tells me all of the time that I have too many male friends and that may prohibit me from being in a relationship. I've cut a lot of these friends down over time.
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10-25-2006, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted by delph998
On a serious note, my father tells me all of the time that I have too many male friends and that may prohibit me from being in a relationship. I've cut a lot of these friends down over time.
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Only for insecure men unless you are spending way too much time with other men.
I was raised mostly around males and almost all of my life most of my friends have been male. I also have friends who are women, because I don't believe that women are catty or difficult to get along with, but just not as many female friends as I have male friends. I make sure that these male friendships are platonic (even if there WAS some attraction at sometime) and we don't blur the lines in our words and interactions. So there's never a question.
If you cut down on these male friends make that be a choice YOU make because YOU no longer need them in your life. Unless you and your man are going to be picking each other's friends and he's not going to have any female friends. 
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10-26-2006, 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Only for insecure men unless you are spending way too much time with other men.
I was raised mostly around males and almost all of my life most of my friends have been male. I also have friends who are women, because I don't believe that women are catty or difficult to get along with, but just not as many female friends as I have male friends. I make sure that these male friendships are platonic (even if there WAS some attraction at sometime) and we don't blur the lines in our words and interactions. So there's never a question.
If you cut down on these male friends make that be a choice YOU make because YOU no longer need them in your life. Unless you and your man are going to be picking each other's friends and he's not going to have any female friends.
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Girl, you're speaking that knowledge! This is true. A lot of these friends did/do like me and I don't feel the same way, so I know that I needed to move on with life. But your comments were very accurate. I do have males friends that are permanent male friends...the significant other will have to understand that.
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10-26-2006, 01:32 AM
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A question for everyone in response to this quote.
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I do have males friends that are permanent male friends...the significant other will have to understand that.
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Do you think that you would change your relationship with your opposite sex friend in anyway while you have a significant other?
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10-27-2006, 01:52 AM
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I love it!
On a serious note, my father tells me all of the time that I have too many male friends and that may prohibit me from being in a relationship. I've cut a lot of these friends down over time. |
Good girl, good girl. Keep kuttin' those male friends back. 
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10-27-2006, 12:39 PM
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Good girl, good girl. Keep kuttin' those male friends back. |
You're something else, PB!
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10-27-2006, 01:25 PM
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I'm not sure if it was mentioned earlier in the thread, but the only female friends who are seriously "just friends" are the sisters, cousins, and girlfriends of friends that I already have. And if my friends broke up with their girlfriends that I'm cool with, those females wouldn't be my friends any more. I'd be nice to them, but there wouldn't be much to talk about. It's a simple "man law" *looks at clock, gets more impatient for happy hour*
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10-27-2006, 02:04 PM
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I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.
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10-27-2006, 02:13 PM
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I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.
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Geesh. Good luck on being able to control which gender a grown ass man's friends are.  He'll still befriend women, he just won't tell YOU about it.
And while he's lying to you about not having platonic friendships with women, he'll just go ahead and cheat on you too since he's getting away with hiding something anyway and will be "chopped up" whether it's platonic or not.
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10-28-2006, 12:41 AM
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I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.
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Whooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go ahead girl!!!!!
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10-27-2006, 04:07 PM
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I'm not sure if it was mentioned earlier in the thread, but the only female friends who are seriously "just friends" are the sisters, cousins, and girlfriends of friends that I already have. And if my friends broke up with their girlfriends that I'm cool with, those females wouldn't be my friends any more. I'd be nice to them, but there wouldn't be much to talk about. It's a simple "man law" *looks at clock, gets more impatient for happy hour*
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Are you married? Just asking...
LADIES, THIS MAN IS READDDYYYY!!!!
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10-27-2006, 06:01 PM
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Are you married? Just asking...
LADIES, THIS MAN IS READDDYYYY!!!!
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I'm way too young to be married. Maybe not too young, but way too immature. Maybe in a few years, when I've worked longer and act more responsible.
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10-27-2006, 01:48 AM
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Well you will be missing out on a lot of good women then.
But maybe women won't want to be with you because you call them "babe." |
LOL. I get my share of ladies.
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