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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06
Exactly.
Keep in mind that the chapter will change, too. Seniors will graduate and new members will come in. I assume you've already been initiated, so I'd say you should give it another semester or two before you decide to drop. Make an effort to befriend the sisters and especially the new members next semester. Take on a leadership position or join a committee. Get involved. Everyone here is going to tell you the same thing; you get out of Greek life what you put into it.
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I've thought about this a lot, and I would love to see my chapter change an be successful in the coming years. Something I've thought about a lot is coming back in 10 or so years and seeing my chapter flourishing and have an awesome sisterhood, but when it comes down to it, it's just not a worthy investment in terms of time and money right now if I'm unhappy. I'm in a committee, I've organized events, I attend everything, I've met a lot of great people (especially alumni - I am in complete awe of some of our advisors), and I still just feel like there is something missing.
Maybe it IS me. I'm not sure.
I want to love it, I genuinely do, but it's just not something I can force, and I hate feeling this way about something that I feel like I should be crazy about.
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