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Originally Posted by TPA85
I'm not going to try to talk you in to sticking around because you seem to have your mind made up. However, it's been ~5 months, some of which was Thanksgiving and Winter breaks. Do you really feel like you've seen all this group has to offer in the short time you've been around?
If you end up quitting, so be it. But don't expect the girls to still want to be friends.
If you stick with it actively participate. Don't be a deadbeat and blame the chapter because "it never clicked" for you.
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Exactly.
Keep in mind that the chapter will change, too. Seniors will graduate and new members will come in. I assume you've already been initiated, so I'd say you should give it another semester or two before you decide to drop. Make an effort to befriend the sisters and especially the new members next semester. Take on a leadership position or join a committee. Get involved. Everyone here is going to tell you the same thing; you get out of Greek life what you put into it.