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Originally Posted by 33girl
I don't think this is dirty rushing at all. She got to know a sister and the sister really likes her, and apparently the other sisters do too. That's pretty much the best way to get a bid if you're a sophomore. Many women don't do well going straight from high school to sorority rush without knowing anyone (I know I wouldn't have) and that year of college makes a big difference for some people.
As far as the sister calling her "pledge daughter to be" - well, it's her reputation that's going on the line. It will shake out however it shakes out. If this girl gets a bid and turns out to be awful, you can bet no one will EVER listen to any recommendation your sister makes ever again.
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I think it's dicey as to whether or not it's bid promising. If she is saying "you are going to be my pledge daughter" that's walking a little too close to the line for my comfort.
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