Well, we should not be giving them that impression, Old Row. The impression is the problem - not the reality. You know, i went thru in 1963 - back when dinosaurs roamed the earth - but I never thought it was all about my choice. I knew I had to be qualified to get an invite and then I had to choose carefully which ones I accepted (that was how it was done before RFM). No one ever gave me the idea I was in total control. And yes, I'm from the South but no woman in my family had ever been Greek, I went to HS out state to a boarding school where none of my classmates knew what a sorority was. The problem today is the heli parents - they should be explaining life and rejection, etc to their children and they are not. Dr Phil - I'm right there with, baby!
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