Friend zone or endzone????

[I2K Beta Mu]

Originally Posted by iotamason

Well having been out the dating game for almost a half a decade... I was wondering if some of the rules have changed? My best friend called three weeks ago and was explaining to me she met a guy that fit everything on her list that she was looking for, college educated, his own place, own vehicle, ran his own business, and no kids... I told her it seems she has found everything she was looking for. She said she was going to give it go...
Fast forward to one week ago.... She calls and says his personality was a great fit as well but she feels it would be better if they were friends...

So my question to the ladies and the fellas on the forum is this how the game is now? Because my brother in law says he ends up in the friend zone too often.....

CTFU @ that gif. I feel you, frat. I think it works like it does in nature. I'm not trying to compare people to animals, but I think what a lot females look for in a dude is that "Alpha Male" mentality. Do you ever watch National Geographic? You ever watch two males fighting over a female. She always walks away with the stronger male. I know that's some crazy shit to compare humans to that, but I think it kind of works the same way with people in a sense. Most females look at nice dudes as being kind of soft. They make great friends, but not companions. Kind of like the soft dude females go to when they want to complain about dude they're dating. The soft dude will listen, give great advice, but still isn't getting any ass. LOL you feel me? Dude can have money, a crib, a tight job, but if he looks soft to a female, she'll kick it with a dude who's broke as hell, an okay job, and light weight doesn't really care about her other than hittin it. Dude may not be right, but dudes like that don't come off as being soft. You feel me? Check this out, and this is for real. I saw two birds fighting over a female bird once, she was just sitting there watching dudes scrap. After the Alpha Bird whooped dudes ass, she left with him, leaving the weaker bird with no ass LOL. I thought that was some funny shit. I think it's like that with people in a sense. That's why I think a lot of females like to chill with foul ass dudes.