Ordering high end on the first date. Is it rude or is it just me?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by etadrisophila

It wasn't really the food that was costly, it was all those drinks she ordered.

So how do you think you should handle that possibility the next time?

Hopefully he will learn that dinner (and drink) dates are not the only type of date.

I always considered dinner dates to be one of the lazy options when getting to know someone. They are less lazy than going to the movies (no talking, no looking at each other...womp womp).