I am wanting to help change a new member program so that hazing is completely phased out. It is not "so bad" as it could be, but it still exists nonetheless.
This being the case, what other people/groups out their have dealt with this transition before?
How did you deal with sentiments such as:
- "this is the way it has always been"
- "it teaches respect"
- "they have to earn it...its the best worst time of your life, but when your fnished you really feel like you have earned something"
- "If we eliminate that part of the pledge process, they won't be nearly as respected"
- "I did it, so should they"
- "It's not so bad...and its gotten much better"
- etc
What was your "pledging" process like? I am looking for new and innovative ideas.
Please HELP!