You definitely need to drop before this sorority wastes initiation, ritual, and sisterhood on you.
That is unnecessary. New members can be confused, feel overwhelmed, and IMO aren't expected to "get it" before initiation. Her chapter likely wouldn't agree with that "advice".
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