Daughter had unhappy High School experience, should she not mention this during Rush?

[Barbie's_Rush]

If this is such an important issue for you and you have both been lurking here, I don't get why it's mommy asking the question here. I think you should let her be herself and do what she wants in recruitment. That's the only way she's going to end up in the right house for her. If she's painfully shy, she's going to have a tough time in a chapter full if extroverts.