want to bring a Tri-Delta chapter to my university!

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There is nothing negative about explaining the process of NPC extension. Campus Panhellenics add chapters for two main reasons:

1. A growing trend in Panhellenic membership.
2. An established local/interest group that wishes to affiliate with an NPC group.

The only thing she can do is ask the Greek Life Office if her school is open for extension. If it is not, she's not going to be able to convince them to open for extension. She can't fudge membership data. She can't whine and complain her way into making Panhellenic open for extension because she is infatuated with Tri Delta.

No NPC group would dare colonize at a school not open to extension because it violates an NPC unanimous agreement. So she can't beg Tri Delta National to come if her university says no.

Her only hope would be to put together an interest group comprable to the size of the other chapters on campus. Even if she were to succeed in building an interest group, who is to say that her university would open for extension? Tri Delta may not even be interested colonizing at her school. Her school's Campus Panhellenic may not choose Tri Delta even if they were interested. And if the school did choose Tri Delta, they would likely choose more members for the colony, and who is to say that you'd like them?

NPCs on a national level have a lot more in common than you think. They all value friendship, scholarship, philanthropy/service, and leadership. Every NPC has chapters that are "top tier" at their respective campuses, and every NPC has chapters that are "bottom tier" at their respective campuses. Being my alumnae chapter's Panhellenic Delegate has made me realize how similar we are on a National level. I realize some NPCs are stronger locally than others (ie. presence of alumnae chapters). I realize that some cater to a certain niche, mainly religion, even though you don't have to be Jewish to join AEPhi or SDT and you don't have to be Catholic to join Theta Phi Alpha. But really, all NPCs have noble causes and the same basic values. The history may have been different in the beginnings, but all the NPCs have much more in common today.

If you are so into St. Jude's, volunteer for/donate to St. Jude's! You don't have to be a member of Tri Delta to do so. If I chose a sorority solely for its philanthropy, I wouldn't be a Sigma Kappa. I realize Alzheimer's Disease isn't the "sexiest" philanthropy. It doesn't deal with cute kids or women specifically. It's still important to cure because it will further bankrupt our healthcare system and it will touch so many people's lives.

There are NPCs other than Sigma Kappa that I really admire and "connect with" based on their philanthropy, history, motto, purpose, etc. but they were not a fit for me at my campus! Although I found a great fit for me in Sigma Kappa, if I had gone to another school (even one with a Sigma Kappa chapter), I might not have ended up a Sigma Kappa.

There are plenty of things I love about my sorority. I love that we were founded by the first 5 women to attend Colby. I love how our symbols/colors/flowers/jewel are all tied together in our ritual and mean something more than just looking pretty. I love our values, both outward and in ritual. But the thing is, I could find things to love about every NPC.