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Originally Posted by sarolasju
As far as I know, my school is still waiting for a formal decision on NPC expansion, I did rush my freshman year, got two bids but turned them down, and no I am not the only person interested in bringing DDD to my school.
I just don't really know what to do from here. Am I supposed to just wait to hear back from people? I started assembling a packet according to my universities expansion procedures but its just tough having not heard back from my advisor or nationals yet.
I agree with 33 on her example, but when I mentioned the already present sororities not feeling right, I didn't mean I don't feel like I fit in with the girls, they all seemed plenty nice. What I mean is that I don't feel that I can identify with the purpose and ideals of the orgs themselves.
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QFP.
How did you end up with two bids?
Lets say hypothetically that you did get DDD to charter at your school. How do you know that you will fit in the other girls chosen to be in your school's hypothetical chapter of Tri Delta? You could love DDD till the cows come home but if you dont get along with your sisters whats the point?
I find it unbelieveable that you cant find at least one chapter at your school to identify with..all the NPCs are values-based orgs and if you take away rituals, colors, symbols and a few policies here and there, they are a lot (although not exactly) alike.
I would give yourself a timeline..what is your class standing? I would say by your 2nd semester soph year or 1st semester junior yr if DDD hasnt been able to establish itself at your university then I would try recruitment again. It will be your only shot at being in a sorority.