want to bring a Tri-Delta chapter to my university!

[ComradesTrue]

Originally Posted by sarolasju

Of course all the groups have similar purposes in that they're women groups for support and friendship and character development etc, but if they were all so similar then why do you only fall in love with ONE of them? Of course i can fit in with the girls in the pre-existing sororities, but aside from loving my sisters, I want to really love the letters I'm representing. I hope that makes sense. But I guess if its hopeless then well..that's that.

Maybe I am not reading your intent well, but I am failing to see what it is about Tri-Delta that has you intrigued that you are not feeling with the existing chapters.

As for the part that I bolded... it is very possible to fall in love with several chapters during recruitment. I did. It took me over an hour to fill out my pref card because I loved all three of the chapters that I visited for pref. That is not uncommon at all. Many PNMs give the ranking order long, careful thought, because they had such positive experiences in multiple chapters. THere are other PNMs who have lukewarm feelings after pref round, but choose to give a chapter a chance.

Once you join a group you become immersed in that chapter, so of course the bond that you feel there will only continue to flourish, and that is where the "love" comes into play.

You haven't shared too much of your recruitment experience except that you received 2 bids. (guessing that one of those was a local?) Did you accept either bid?

What does Tri-Delta offer that the three on campus groups do not?

[navane]

Originally Posted by Blondie93

You haven't shared too much of your recruitment experience except that you received 2 bids. (guessing that one of those was a local?)

Maybe she went through informal recruitment and that's how she received more than one bid?

.....Kelly