I'm a kappa too! (Alpha chapter!!!)
At Monmouth, it's less likely for a girl to lavalier a guy, but we still have a few. Like everyone else has said, it is very serious.
The way to tell your sisters is through a candle pass. The way to actually do it with him is probably in the ritual book.
I know with the fraternities on our campus it's usually individualized. One girl was in a play, so her boyfriend brought some of his closest brothers and other brothers in the play to her right before curtain and asked her to wear his letters. I saw another fraternity all wait outside one of the brother's girlfriend's classes and sing a song from their ritual book to her and then he fgave her a shirt and put a lavalier (necklace) on her.
I'm hoping to share these ceremonies with my boyfriend soon!!
Good luck!
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