Just a note from a mother who has had a daughter go through recruitment this year: The sentence, which other posters have picked up on is crucial: Isn't this supposed to be what I want? You know, my daughter may have "wanted" a pony, but she got a puppy. Then she had a choice: love the puppy or not have a pet. She picked the puppy. Life is not always about what you want, it is about what you get and how you handle the gift that you have received.
I am sorry that you are disappointed.
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