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With my ex, it was part selfishness and part of his refusal to be "on a schedule" on weekends. He hates having to be a certain place at a certain time on weekends and hates planning ahead when it comes to leisure time. To him, leisure time means you do what you feel like doing when you feel like doing it. It's his rebellion against having to always be on time and be in meetings at certain times all week long at work, he claims. It IS very selfish though because there is no regard for the other person's time. But, that's my ex. He eats what he feels like eating, even if it's not what I had prepared for dinner (he would actually go get take out when I'd cooked a perfectly good meal that he usually likes just because "I feel like Mexican tonight instead of chicken". ARG! It made me nuts. He flies by the seat of his pants whenever it's not absolutely necessary (like for work).
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