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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
Your right.....I'm going to talk him out of making a bad decision, because in the end...whichever way......with him or without......I will still end up happy. Its him that i am worried about.
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Stop worrying about him, he is worrying about himself enough for both of you. Ask yourself this, who is thinking about you in this relationship. If you spend all of your time worrying about him, considering his feelings, then there is something wrong in this relationship.
My feeling is that despite our advice, you are going to be with this man for a while longer. It seems that in these sorts of situations, there has to be a rock bottom, and you have not hit it yet.
Still, I urge you to read and reread Spinderella's post/cautionary tale. Try to benefit from the lessons that it has taken her 18 years to learn.
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