Loved Ones Agianst Sororities :(

[RareTreasure]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

She will.

Your right.....I'm going to talk him out of making a bad decision, because in the end...whichever way......with him or without......I will still end up happy. Its him that i am worried about.

[ComradesTrue]

No, I just think you are too insecure to be alone.

The guy is a jerk. Face it.

This thread gives me tired-head. It is going nowhere because everyone is telling you the same thing, yet you seem to be waiting for someone to tell you what you want to hear.

Ain't gonna happen.

Why not try life as a single person for awhile? If you are still in college and have been with this guy for 5 years it could be very enlightening for you.

[Little32]

Originally Posted by RareTreasure

Your right.....I'm going to talk him out of making a bad decision, because in the end...whichever way......with him or without......I will still end up happy. Its him that i am worried about.

Stop worrying about him, he is worrying about himself enough for both of you. Ask yourself this, who is thinking about you in this relationship. If you spend all of your time worrying about him, considering his feelings, then there is something wrong in this relationship.

My feeling is that despite our advice, you are going to be with this man for a while longer. It seems that in these sorts of situations, there has to be a rock bottom, and you have not hit it yet.

Still, I urge you to read and reread Spinderella's post/cautionary tale. Try to benefit from the lessons that it has taken her 18 years to learn.

[RareTreasure]

Originally Posted by Little32

Try to benefit from the lessons that it has taken her 18 years to learn.

I know...You are soo right.