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Originally Posted by RareTreasure
So....he says i have no integrity......and he says that i just want to be a part of something. My reasons aren't "real" enough to him, and he says that i said i would never go through some of the stuff when it was 1st brought to my attention.....now, just to be a part of something i will.
I keep telling him he just doesn't get it.
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Sweetie, I had to reply to your post (normally I just lurk LOL). How can this "man" say you have no integrity just because YOU are doing something that YOU feel will enrich your life?
Many others have said it -- you have a big time control freak on your hands, and when he broke up with you and called you a groupie, he did you a favor. If he can't support you and your dreams, he is a LIABILITY, not an asset. He sounds like he needs a much weaker woman in his life than the one he has. Don't make that change for the worst, because the one that will suffer in the end is you. You didn't refer to this man as your husband, so honestly, who gives a flying fig what he wants when it comes to your life and your decisions? You'll be in your sorority forever -- no relationship is a guarantee!
I wish you the best of luck in your endeavours, and I hope you'll keep us abreast of your progress.
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