Wedding Invitation Etiquette Question

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Originally Posted by BetteDavisEyes

That's the plan. So far, I have bought the book Great Sex for Dummies, a can of body cream, and am searching for something gaudy & tacky to wear. Preferable with fringe.

I'm in uber-bitch mode now.

You are now court ordered to come back to this thread after the shower and tell us how it went. Thank you.

I think it's just rude to put that on the invites. Generally, people are not going to do that for shower anyway (they save that stuff for the bachelorette).

However, when she put that in the invites, it created an adverse reaction of sorts. People are offended that she'd think they would do it (and pissed at the rudeness of it), so they do it anyway.