Mom new to Greek, daughter rushing. needs help

[AZ-AlphaXi]

Originally Posted by scoobydoo

i did read most of them. lol but i was still a little confused. i guess i can't understand that if a girl chooses 3 sororities, and they have invited her back...how can she not get in?

also, would an email suffice to the sorority from my lady friends? or should my daughter carry around copies of this letter for all the sororites to have on hand? i don't know how would be a good time to get these letters to the houses. Also, does her referal have to be from a former greek? Or what if my lady friend belongs to house XYZ, I don't think house ABC would want a referal letter from my friend who was in XYZ?

you are talking here about recommentations. These should be from a member of XYZ to the XYZ chapter. a recommendation from a member of ABC won't count at XYZ. The member of XYZ who is providing the recommendation is responsible to getting that recommendation letter or form to the chapter, not your daughter. your daughter can help by providing a resume and stamped envelope addressed to the chapter to the recommender member, but the member is responsible for sending it in. if an email would be sufficient, that would be between the chaper and the member and the member would know that. Your daughter should not carry recommendations with her to give to the chapters.