Mom new to Greek, daughter rushing. needs help

Originally Posted by scoobydoo

i did read most of them. lol but i was still a little confused. i guess i can't understand that if a girl chooses 3 sororities, and they have invited her back...how can she not get in?

I think you're treading into membership selection territory.

also, would an email suffice to the sorority from my lady friends? or should my daughter carry around copies of this letter for all the sororites to have on hand? i don't know how would be a good time to get these letters to the houses. Also, does her referal have to be from a former greek? Or what if my lady friend belongs to house XYZ, I don't think house ABC would want a referal letter from my friend who was in XYZ?

Absolutely under no circumstances does she carry this letter around. The rec letters should be submitted to the chapter BEFORE she goes through rush. And it's not just one standard letter, either. Each sorority has their OWN form they ask their members to turn in when they want to recommend a girl for membership. ABC members only write recs to the ABC house, etc.