People that you would NOT recommend.

[dgdramadawg]

As was mentioned in the previous thread by others, it would take a lot for me to write a no rec. I would be more likely to ask the PNM to ask someone else for a rec if I did not feel comfortable recommending her. The girl would have to have some serious baggage that would reflect poorly on the sorority, like a felony or really risque photos online or something, for me to feel like I should write her a no rec.

A friend of mine told me once that her chapter often received no recs from older alumnae who did not want girls pledging because the girls drank or something like that. I think this is a perfect example of different alumnae taking membership criteria differently... some might see this as worthy of a no rec and others might think it makes the PNM a fun-loving girl! This is where multiple recs would come in handy... if 2 alums say "no," then it's definitely not just a personal opinion of one woman.