Smaller Groups-how can you make PNMs feel chosen?

[KSUViolet06]

That's a difficult question, because in theory, PNMs should feel good about being invited to pref at any chapter (as opposed to not getting invited back anywhere at all). But we all know it doesn't work that way in the real world...

I'd suggest just being genuinely excited to have these women back. If a PNM is feeling bad about their invites, seeing that someone is happy to see them can sometimes make their day.

Also, the chapter should examine their own attitude toward themselves. PNMs can sense the negative vibes that result when a chapter doesn't think highly of itself.