"Why Did You Decide to Join ...That?"

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Originally Posted by ladygreek

That is why so much defensiveness is shown even when we are trying to help.

I don't really think people are trying to help.

I think people are expressing their opinions and asking questions to suit their own "curiosity." Helping would require less of an audience and involve things like PMing the person if people cared so much. Maybe the poster has already received PMs.