We should be realistic absolutely, but I think we should try not to let our anger and frustration show, even when the posters are jerks.
Imagine that the OPs are the world's worst recruitment guests and they are acting the same way at the parties that they act here. I still think a group member would be better off trying not to reply in kind, especially because other PNMs will see her response and unfortunately maybe form connections between the angry behavior and the group.
I'm not saying that we need to stifle ourselves generally in all the other areas of GreekChat or lie to PNMs here, but we should do our best not to lose it on them or rip them and their situation to shreds, even when they seem to deserve it, because of how it make us look to other PNMs who might have the same thoughts or concerns.
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