I agree that discretion is important, but it's also possible for Californiagirl to share her story without being found out. Specifics like clothing, decorations, conversation topics, house descriptions, etc aren't necessary- just saying "this house really impressed me- I think they are all really great and I clicked instantly with the women I met", "I'm still unsure about whether this group is for me", and "I don't think this is the right group for me" is great! It'll be a reminder for her when she looks back on everything, and if someone does find out which house is which... does it necessarily matter? Nothing negative said- not every group is for every woman, or there would just be one big sorority!
It's up to you, Californiagirl, but many women have shared their stories on GC without any issues. So long as you remain respectful and don't trash any of the groups, you should be fine! Even if you don't want to post your experience until the end, and only translate the "winning" house, that's fine. Recruitment stories certainly help those of us adicts get our fix... but they're also great for you to record your experience, get advice/support as necessary, and look back on everything several years down the road. I wish I had found it before I joined- I would love to see what I was thinking back then!
Just my two cents.
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