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Originally Posted by FleurGirl
For whatever reason, this is the major point I think is lost on PNMs: at the end of the day, it doesn't matter how much you love a house; if they don't love you back, you aren't getting a bid. I understand that they don't want the PNMs to be terrified or feel totally out of control, but the reality is that the chapters are ultimately the ones really doing most of the decision making. Yes, the PNMs get to decide which bid they'll accept and certainly have a say in the process, but if a chapter doesn't want a particular PNM for whatever reason, that PNM isn't getting a bid there.
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And to add onto this, something I always tell my rec girls:
If they don't want you, you don't want them. So if a house cuts you, don't waste your time crying over it.
You want a house that
wants you. You
deserve a house that wants you. Focus on the houses that invited you back, not the ones that released you.
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