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Originally Posted by dgdramadawg
And to add onto this, something I always tell my rec girls:
If they don't want you, you don't want them. So if a house cuts you, don't waste your time crying over it.
You want a house that wants you. You deserve a house that wants you. Focus on the houses that invited you back, not the ones that released you.
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Good advice, but I think it's important to let them know that "they may have wanted you, there was just someone else they wanted more."There's a world of difference between that and the sorority not wanting you AT ALL.
The thing is...I'd hate to encourage girls to think "those snobby bitches didn't like me so forget them!" but on the other hand, to be TOO positive could make a rushee think "I just have to try extra hard, and they will bid me next semester/year." It's a hard line to walk, and I don't know how people do it.
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