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Originally Posted by preciousjeni
Amen. If there's something drastic that a woman feels she wants a man to change, it's pointless. Perhaps he'll grow out of it, but probably not. Men don't change for a woman they don't respect.
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He actually used to be a relatively huge partier in high school/beginning of college but since we had a discussion when we got together about our relationship he toned it down a lot and changed from the whole party scene thing (As did i) but it just seems now like he kinda went back to it.
It's college. Yes, I love him, but maybe we aren't supposed to be together during it. I really DON'T want to break up with him, because I really do love him and we get along perfectly when we're together, but I guess maybe most of you are right on here, which is why I asked for advice in the first place because I didn't really think of it as a "break up" issue as much as i saw it as a need to "fix things," but most people are saying the opposite of what I thought.