whitelily needs advice

[whiteXseaXlily]

I will be attending a new school in the Fall and hope to go through recruitment. Here's my backround story. I've moved around a lot and only had one chance to attend a recruitment event. It was two years ago, but it was informal, and I didn't really get a chance to know many girls. The girls that did know me promised me they would pull really hard to get me in. I obviously did not get in and I was crushed. I was so upset I stopped talking to those girls and shut myself off to most of Greek Life.

Due to family/personal stuff, I had to move and change schools. Unfortunately, it was to a community college, with no Greek system. So, I did what everyone suggested and joined a service sorority. It's nice, but there isn't as much sisterhood as I was hoping for.

I think I can make it through recruitment itself, but there is one detail that might bring everything to a screeching halt. In the fall, when I can go through recruitment, I'll be 22. I'm aware that's not the typical age for someone to join a group, but I know of a girl who went through at 25 and she was married.

It's a fairly small school that has four NPC groups, one of which just recently colonized. I know I'll be spending at least 3 years there finishing my degree. I just don't know if that will help me at this point.

Sorry this was so long. Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated.