Smaller Groups-how can you make PNMs feel chosen?
I received a pm from a GCer who's a member of a smaller group on a big campus. Without outing her group, she wanted me to ask y'all how they could make PNMs feel like they were "chosen", not like they were all their group could get. She said that frequently they're in the position of having to ask back girls who have cut them and that frankly, a lot of girls who are crying at their prefs aren't doing it from happiness.
So GCers, how can they make their guests feel special and not let them think they're the "leftovers" in recruitment?
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