Recruitment annoyance

[pinklion10]

One thing that's been happening to our chapter a lot in the COB period...

We give a girl a bid and she denies it, telling us she doesn't have time to commit to the house.

But then she goes and pledges another house.

WHY do girls do this? It's not like we aren't going to know she pledged somewhere else. And if someone would just say "No thanks, I'm not interested in your house, but I like another.", I know all of my sisters would be completely FINE with that. We just don't like being lied to.

One girl did this and then asked us what time our recruitment event the next day was, because she wanted to go. "I really like you guys," she said, but she'd denied a bid from us the week before. I had to explain to her that we liked her too, but she found a house that she felt she fit in with better, that she wasn't eligible to go to a recruitment event if she'd already been recruited.

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