Here's the scenario

[PrettyBoy]

I have two scenarios. Answer both. o.k. here's the 1st scenario.

1. Let's say you were getting married and the person you were getting married to was all that. You loved everything about him/her and you two had been together for awhile now. The night before the wedding your best man/maid of honor told you that he/she slept with your fiance back in the day, while you two were just dating, but it was in the early stages of your dating. So basically for years you had no clue they screwed, but only one time.

A. Would you call off the wedding, and end your friendship with your best man/maid of honor?
or
B. Would you squash it and still marry him/her and continue your friendship with your best man/maid of honor?

Here's the 2nd scenario.

2. I was talking to a friend of mine and he said that he found out his X that he had been in a long term relationship with was getting married. They broke up long before her wedding and remained friends. He said he was really happy for her and that he'll be expecting an invitation. Later, shortly before the wedding she told him her finance did not want her to invite him to the wedding. He was disappointed and asked her why? He didn't understand why her fiance' didn't want him to be there. My response to him was "Damn, can you blame him?"

Question: If you were getting married what would you do if your fiance's X wanted an invitation to the wedding? Would you:

A. Say hell no?
or
B. Would you be o.k. with it?

My answer to both scenarios

1st scenario: I would call off the wedding because I would feel betrayed. I also would be very angry with my best man, and I would end our friendship.

2nd scenario: Hell no. There's no way in hell I'm going to say: "Oh yeah, you can invite your X to our wedding." Hell, I don't know that joker. All I know is he is my fiance's X and in my book he is completely out of her life, now that she's getting married to me, so the friendship they share also has to go. I'm her friend now. Her best friend. That's how I see it. I would be more concerned as to why this joker would even think he was getting an invite to the wedding.