Just a lil help please!!!

jusme · #1 09-28-2006, 05:41 PM

I am a person of extreme intrest in DST. I have read In Search of Sisterhood, The Divine Nine and i have visited the Schomberg library in Harlem, NY to read Shaped to its Purpose. I have been to every informational and every event that your sorors have held at my school, but I feel like something is missing. I am on a first name basis with the current members of the chapter and we talk ocassionally when we see each other (hi, how was class, how was your day, those sort of things). I am very shy when it comes to meeting new people and i had to step out of my comfort zone to even approach the members. I am now wondering what more can I do??

I know that my intrest is known because a soror and I have had a brief convo. They asked why i never called but i dont know what i would say!!. They also told me i could know all the info about the org but if i didnt now the chapter members what good would it do. So i guess my ultimate question is how should a shy person go about getting to know chapter members??

ShamikaT · #2 09-28-2006, 05:45 PM

I don't know much about Delta, but I do know things about Zeta. I'll send you a PM.

jusme · #3 09-28-2006, 05:54 PM

THANKS!!!!!

ill take any and all information i can get since it really is a general question!!

DSTCHAOS · #4 09-28-2006, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by jusme

I know that my intrest is known because a Delta and I have had a brief convo.

Fixed that for you.

Talk to the chapter members like they are...*gasp*...people. Be respectful and don't be stalkerish. Anxiety in situations such as this is normal so welcome to life.

You will figure out the rest as you go along.

tld221 · #5 09-28-2006, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Fixed that for you.

Talk to the chapter members like they are...*gasp*...people. Be respectful and don't be stalkerish. Anxiety in situations such as this is normal so welcome to life.

You will figure out the rest as you go along.

its so simple but its real. wish i knew that beforehand

ps. LOL @ that siggy DSTCHAOS!

DSTCHAOS · #6 09-28-2006, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221

its so simple but its real. wish i knew that beforehand

ps. LOL @ that siggy DSTCHAOS!

I come from a small school where all the black people knew each other so it was easier us.

Does this mean you know what movie that comes from? Not the Tucker Carlson part.

tld221 · #7 09-28-2006, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I come from a small school where all the black people knew each other so it was easier us.

Does this mean you know what movie that comes from? Not the Tucker Carlson part.

darn no! google cant even help me

im kinda bad at movie trivia...

DSTCHAOS · #8 09-28-2006, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221

darn no! google cant even help me

im kinda bad at movie trivia...

Hint: One of Adam Sandler's early films.

CrimsonTide4 · #9 09-28-2006, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Fixed that for you.

Talk to the chapter members like they are...*gasp*...people. Be respectful and don't be stalkerish. Anxiety in situations such as this is normal so welcome to life.

You will figure out the rest as you go along.

Thanks for fixing that for HER.

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

I come from a small school where all the black people knew each other so it was easier us.

Same here.

Just be yourself.