Where are all the old fashioned guys?

[Taualumna]

Why is it so difficult to find nice, old fashioned guys these days? Yes, many guys I know do dress well for work, but once the weekend hits, they become grubby, and yes, even those who are in their early 30s act like they're still 21 (or sometimes even younger). They aren't as gentlemanly as they could be either, even when they're dressed up. I'd like a guy who would open doors for me, who doesn't fist his cutlery (trust me, I know at least two guys who can't hold their fork and knife properly), who'd help me with my coat if necessary. Someone who doesn't feel uncomfortable when dressed up. Why is it so hard to find these guys? I know that they're out there!