Okay, this has been bugging me since thursday....
Last thursday I was standing in line for the Records office to finish up adding some extra classes. Well, one of the rushees, "O" for my boyfriends fraternity was waiting in line also, I gave him a hug and made small chit chat and he left. I was the 3rd person in line when someone came up behind me and wrapped their arms around me, I looked back and seen it was just "O". A bunch of his buddies were there ( I did not know who they were) and "O" became a big ole jerk! When I faced him, he picked me up off the ground (he's 6'7, I'm 5'5) holding me with his left hand and then he
grabbed my butt with his right!!
I mean, he did the kind of butt grab that only your S.O is allowed to do!! I made him put me down and then he put me in a head lock and picked me up off the ground and asked me, "So, have you ever been hurt before?" After what felt like a couple of minutes he let me down, I rolled my eyes at him and finally was able to put in my classes. (He was gabbing to his other dumbazz buddy)
I left the records office and went to my boyfriends apartment, well, he wasn't there so I gave him fraternity bro a message to call me. Well, Dusty calls me and I tell him what happened. (which he was
not happy about..) Last night (saturday), the Hegamon (Pledge Master) came over to hang out, Dusty had me tell him what happened.
The lighter part of this is that "O" will not recieve an invite, bid, and if he shows up to open he'll be kicked out.
But here's the bad part, Dusty is extremely pissed off about this, and so are his bros. Thankfully "O" didn't stay in the dorms over the weekend otherwise about 10 of the guys were going to pay him a visit.
Dusty really wants to get into a fight about this and quite frankly it scares me, I feel guilty that I told him and now him and his bro's have the chance of getting into trouble over this.
I'm confused about this, I mean, one part of me is happy that I have a guy that will go to bat for me, but then a larger part of me is wishing i never told him because now he risks getting into trouble and add onto this his bros can get into trouble.
Any thoughts?? *sigh*
--Get this, "O" also as a 4 month long girlfriend and did the same butt-grab deal to another Rushees girlfriend!
Should they be involved?
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