Need help and ideas!!
Recently during our Official Visit, our province officer told me that part of our pledging was hazing and had to stop. Although we certainly never thought it was...
For our pledge period, the girls are all given a notebook by their big sis after Induction. Every week they take tests over things concerning the fraternity in preperation for the final exam (which is a national requirement). Before the test each week, the girls were supposed to have the members quiz them on their material, and if they got the questions right, we gave them "roses" (we'd draw three roses and sign our name). However, our P.O. told us that this is hazing. I don't understand...they were NEVER punished, demerited, etc if they didn't get the material right, and they weren't forced to do it. Can anyone please tell me why this is hazing?
But since she said it is...I need some creative ideas on how to help the girls learn their material. I'm open to any and all ideas.
Thanks!
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