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Is it wrong to Date/Marry Someone for What They Have?
I was wondering what you all look for in a relationship.
We had a very interesting discussion in my class the other day about marrying someone for money or atleast what they have to bring to the relationship?
I personally have dated guys that did not have money and it is not fun having to pay for things all the time. I think that for me I would like someone that can contribute and atleast has some type of stable income coming in. Of course I have my own money but he needs to have his own money too. I think that many people who say that we are suppose to be women on the 2k are thinking that since we are "trying to be so independent" that is the cue for men to think that we are suppose to start paying for them when we go out. Now taking turns paying for meals and dates, I am with that......... But I am not with the whole idea of myself paying everytime. I know that in the past men have paid for us (ladies) to go out but i think that goes back to the earlier years when men were suppose to have chivary towards women. But of course you still have to look at the pay gap between men and women? No matter how hard we try ladies men are still making more then we are and did you know that more black women obtain college degrees then black men and we also obtain more MA's and Phd's also. But other then that I want to here some feed back. Do yall think its wrong to date people on what they have?
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