Thoughts on high school sororities

[nonsoutherngirl]

I am a 14 year old girl that lives in a very southern part of Alabama. I was born and raised in New Jersey though. My high school that I will be attending has two sororities:the, "party sorority" and the "helpful sorority." I have already been asked to attend events including formal, (to have my name called out?) And many of the girls have suddenly taken interest in me. My mother, who is straight out of Ohio is completely against sororities and thinks they are all just about partying and drinking. But I am interested in at least going to a few events to see if I would enjoy this. Almost all of my friends havery alrealready decided which sorority they are doing because of what their older sisters chose. I just want to know who's right, my mom, who disagrees completely with high school sororities, or me, where I believe I should at least give them a chance