Getting a couple of things straight....

DeltaAngel4life · #1 08-20-2010, 11:07 AM

Yesterday I posted a thread entitled African American or Multicultural Non collegiate sorority. With my thread I stated that I was a 26 year old, African American female seeking anybody that had information on any non collegiate sororities that aren't lesbian based and had members that were younger than 50 years of age. I stated that due to my financial situation when I attended a four year institution I was unable to join the sorority of my choice. What I did not state was that I never received my bachelors degree, but at the current moment I am in pursuit of it BUT at a 2 year college. I had enough credits to receive my associates when I entered into the 2 year college and because of my business I am unable to attend a four year institute full time. I understand that after I receive my Bachelors I can join a graduate chapter which I would love to do but I also know that if I join a non collegiate sorority I can join a college based sorority as well. I did research (google, bing, yahoo search, etc.) And all the results came back the same when I would research non collegiate sororities. Either they where for women 50+ or lesbian based. That is NOT what I am interested in. I may have seemed a bit on edge yesterday when I got my first reply but I didn't mean any harm to anybody. I was being judged just off the fact that somebody said they would have praised me but I stated that I skipped out on my opportunity to join a sorority. Once again, my reason for not joining a sorority was due to finances. I am more mature, focused and I am very well financially fit. I feel as though I am ready. I was told by several people, that know nothing about me and have never laid eyes on me a day in there lives, that I was not ready to be greek. My user name, DeltaAngel4life, does not mean I am apart of Delta Sigma Theta or any other greek organization. When I was in high school (ages ago,lol) I was apart of a high school sorority and our step master was a delta. I'm going to sum this all up again and hope this time I get a more positive response to what I am asking.
I'm a 26 year old African American mother and wife
I own my own small business which is doing very well
I have an associates degree and I am CURRENTLY in pursuit of my Bachelors
I am seeking information on a Non- collegiate sorority either African American or Multicultural based
I have done most of my research on search engines such as Google
I am not interested in joining a sorority that is 50+
I am not interested in joining a lesbian sorority
If anybody needs any more information or even if you have an answer for me please feel free to let me know. I am not a rude and nasty person, I just don't tolerate ignorance. Yesterday I had a horrible experience on this forum that I do not wish to speak about. I am open to all advice and suggestions. Thanks in advance

agzg · #2 08-20-2010, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

Yesterday I posted a thread entitled African American or Multicultural Non collegiate sorority. With my thread I stated that I was a 26 year old, African American female seeking anybody that had information on any non collegiate sororities that aren't lesbian based and had members that were younger than 50 years of age. I stated that due to my financial situation when I attended a four year institution I was unable to join the sorority of my choice. What I did not state was that I never received my bachelors degree, but at the current moment I am in pursuit of it BUT at a 2 year college. I had enough credits to receive my associates when I entered into the 2 year college and because of my business I am unable to attend a four year institute full time. I understand that after I receive my Bachelors I can join a graduate chapter which I would love to do but I also know that if I join a non collegiate sorority I can join a college based sorority as well. I did research (google, bing, yahoo search, etc.) And all the results came back the same when I would research non collegiate sororities. Either they where for women 50+ or lesbian based. That is NOT what I am interested in. I may have seemed a bit on edge yesterday when I got my first reply but I didn't mean any harm to anybody. I was being judged just off the fact that somebody said they would have praised me but I stated that I skipped out on my opportunity to join a sorority. Once again, my reason for not joining a sorority was due to finances. I am more mature, focused and I am very well financially fit. I feel as though I am ready. I was told by several people, that know nothing about me and have never laid eyes on me a day in there lives, that I was not ready to be greek. My user name, DeltaAngel4life, does not mean I am apart of Delta Sigma Theta or any other greek organization. When I was in high school (ages ago,lol) I was apart of a high school sorority and our step master was a delta. I'm going to sum this all up again and hope this time I get a more positive response to what I am asking.
I'm a 26 year old African American mother and wife
I own my own small business which is doing very well
I have an associates degree and I am CURRENTLY in pursuit of my Bachelors
I am seeking information on a Non- collegiate sorority either African American or Multicultural based
I have done most of my research on search engines such as Google
I am not interested in joining a sorority that is 50+
I am not interested in joining a lesbian sorority
If anybody needs any more information or even if you have an answer for me please feel free to let me know. I am not a rude and nasty person, I just don't tolerate ignorance. Yesterday I had a horrible experience on this forum that I do not wish to speak about. I am open to all advice and suggestions. Thanks in advance

Oh sheesh - QFP

DrPhil · #3 08-20-2010, 11:15 AM

Even after sigmadiva was WAY TOO NICE and actually answered her question.

She will never be Greek.

DaemonSeid · #4 08-20-2010, 11:20 AM

We.

Don't.

Care.

If you are this pressed IRL as you are here, you should have very few problems

and it's A PART not APART

BluPhire · #5 08-20-2010, 11:22 AM

I wonder is this how Manifest Destiny began before it became a prevailing thought.

You got your answers (I provided a link, Sigmadiva gave you more info) what do you want now?

DrPhil · #6 08-20-2010, 11:24 AM

This is another reason why we shouldn't really help people with certain GLO questions. The few who are actually grateful would've found the answer without Greekchat.

MysticCat · #7 08-20-2010, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah ad nauseum

This from the poster who said yesterday:

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

The going back n forth has stopped.

Would that it were so.

knight_shadow · #8 08-20-2010, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

If anybody needs any more information or even if you have an answer for me please feel free to let me know. I am not a rude and nasty person, I just don't tolerate ignorance. Yesterday I had a horrible experience on this forum that I do not wish to speak about. I am open to all advice and suggestions. Thanks in advance

1. If we need more info, let you know -- even though it's none of our business?

2. You don't wish to speak about your "forum experience," but you're bringing it up again?

3. You're open to all advice and suggestions -- unless you don't want to hear it?

Seriously, you're doing the most.

DaemonSeid · #9 08-20-2010, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by BluPhire

what do you want now?

Attention

DeltaAngel4life · #10 08-20-2010, 11:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

Yesterday I posted a thread entitled African American or Multicultural Non collegiate sorority. With my thread I stated that I was a 26 year old, African American female seeking anybody that had information on any non collegiate sororities that aren't lesbian based and had members that were younger than 50 years of age. I stated that due to my financial situation when I attended a four year institution I was unable to join the sorority of my choice. What I did not state was that I never received my bachelors degree, but at the current moment I am in pursuit of it BUT at a 2 year college. I had enough credits to receive my associates when I entered into the 2 year college and because of my business I am unable to attend a four year institute full time. I understand that after I receive my Bachelors I can join a graduate chapter which I would love to do but I also know that if I join a non collegiate sorority I can join a college based sorority as well. I did research (google, bing, yahoo search, etc.) And all the results came back the same when I would research non collegiate sororities. Either they where for women 50+ or lesbian based. That is NOT what I am interested in. I may have seemed a bit on edge yesterday when I got my first reply but I didn't mean any harm to anybody. I was being judged just off the fact that somebody said they would have praised me but I stated that I skipped out on my opportunity to join a sorority. Once again, my reason for not joining a sorority was due to finances. I am more mature, focused and I am very well financially fit. I feel as though I am ready. I was told by several people, that know nothing about me and have never laid eyes on me a day in there lives, that I was not ready to be greek. My user name, DeltaAngel4life, does not mean I am apart of Delta Sigma Theta or any other greek organization. When I was in high school (ages ago,lol) I was apart of a high school sorority and our step master was a delta. I'm going to sum this all up again and hope this time I get a more positive response to what I am asking.
I'm a 26 year old African American mother and wife
I own my own small business which is doing very well
I have an associates degree and I am CURRENTLY in pursuit of my Bachelors
I am seeking information on a Non- collegiate sorority either African American or Multicultural based
I have done most of my research on search engines such as Google
I am not interested in joining a sorority that is 50+
I am not interested in joining a lesbian sorority
If anybody needs any more information or even if you have an answer for me please feel free to let me know. I am not a rude and nasty person, I just don't tolerate ignorance. Yesterday I had a horrible experience on this forum that I do not wish to speak about. I am open to all advice and suggestions. Thanks in advance

Seems like ignorance just seems to follow me on this thread.... That's why I posted the new thread, to hopefully get insight elsewhere. I never bothered to go back to yesterdays thread because I don't have time for the negative responses. I never read the information sigmadiva gave me. But I want to thank you all for letting me know that she did give me some information and I will check it out. Please no more negative responses, I don't know you all and you all don't know me therefore your ignorance will result to nothing at the end of the day because I'm sure none of you will actually come to NJ to confront me on the situation. You all have a blessed day.

knight_shadow · #11 08-20-2010, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

Seems like ignorance just seems to follow me on this thread.... That's why I posted the new thread, to hopefully get insight elsewhere. I never bothered to go back to yesterdays thread because I don't have time for the negative responses. I never read the information sigmadiva gave me. But I want to thank you all for letting me know that she did give me some information and I will check it out. Please no more negative responses, I don't know you all and you all don't know me therefore your ignorance will result to nothing at the end of the day because I'm sure none of you will actually come to NJ to confront me on the situation. You all have a blessed day.

And this is why you'll never be Greek

agzg · #12 08-20-2010, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

Seems like ignorance just seems to follow me on this thread.... That's why I posted the new thread, to hopefully get insight elsewhere. I never bothered to go back to yesterdays thread because I don't have time for the negative responses. I never read the information sigmadiva gave me. But I want to thank you all for letting me know that she did give me some information and I will check it out. Please no more negative responses, I don't know you all and you all don't know me therefore your ignorance will result to nothing at the end of the day because I'm sure none of you will actually come to NJ to confront me on the situation. You all have a blessed day.

Is this where you post all the threats and the "if I met you in a darkened alley we'd see what's up" type comments?

DrPhil · #13 08-20-2010, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

Seems like ignorance just seems to follow me on this thread.... That's why I posted the new thread, to hopefully get insight elsewhere. I never bothered to go back to yesterdays thread because I don't have time for the negative responses. I never read the information sigmadiva gave me. But I want to thank you all for letting me know that she did give me some information and I will check it out. Please no more negative responses, I don't know you all and you all don't know me therefore your ignorance will result to nothing at the end of the day because I'm sure none of you will actually come to NJ to confront me on the situation. You all have a blessed day.

We don't care. Read sigmadiva's informative post and shut up.

DrPhil · #14 08-20-2010, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow

And this is why you'll never be Greek

I toldeded ya'll.

CALL ME NOW, FOR YOUR FREEEEEE READIN`!

DaemonSeid · #15 08-20-2010, 12:05 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltaAngel4life

...at the end of the day because I'm sure none of you will actually come to NJ to confront me on the situation. You all have a blessed day.

**snicker** I got family in NJ, but you are right about one thing...I wouldn't waste the gas to confront you on your ignorance.

Since you are done, can you delete your account, turn out the lights and lock the door on your way out of this thread?

Thanks

Wow, I can't believe that you actually said that you didn't bother to read something that was freely given.

Discretion - learn it.

pppst... I got fi' dollars that sez she is in Camden.... **running**

wait...did she flounce?

Can I get an official judge for that?